Sex and relationships

Lots of us have difficulties with sex at one time or another. And MS can throw extra challenges into the mix.

But however MS affects you, and whether you’re single or in a relationship, there are ways to enjoy sex and intimacy.

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Sex and relationship problems

MS can change sex and relationships in various ways. But with good communication, and perhaps some professional help, there are ways to have a fulfilling sex life.

Sexual problems affecting women

Many women with MS will experience sexual difficulties at some point. While there are no specific medications for these symptoms, there are things you can do to help.

Sexual problems affecting men

Around 70% of men with MS experience erectile problems. They generally start some years after the first symptoms of MS appear.

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Helpful resources

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