Joining my local group gave me the volunteering bug

I was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis in 2007 at the age of 32 and live with secondary progressive MS. I first experienced symptoms when I went away on a stag weekend. Whilst I was away, I developed pins and needles in my feet that wouldn’t go away. At the time, I didn’t think much of it and put it down to too much alcohol and dancing in the nightclubs.

When I got home, the pins and needles were still there but I carried on as normal. It was about a month later that I took myself to the doctor. My GP referred me to a neurologist for further examination. Here I went through MRI scans, a lumbar puncture and more tests. Well basically the full works! The results came back as MS. 

I was in total shock at my diagnosis as I didn’t have a clue what MS was. I went into denial and put a brave face on. I carried on with my job as a Computer Numerical Control (CNC) Engineer but, after a few years, I couldn't stand up for long periods so I was given an office job. But then, another classic symptom of MS kicked in, FATIGUE, so I was forced to go part-time. I carried on for another couple of years before I had to admit defeat and take an ill-health retirement. 

Joining my group has opened up new opportunities

This is when the next chapter of my life begun. I’m not one for sitting around watching daytime TV, so the depression kicked in. I remember watching Jeremy Kyle on TV and a man with MS was on it. He was telling his story of living with MS and something clicked. I thought, I can’t just sit here feeling sorry for myself.

It was around that time, my wife and mum went to an Easter bingo that was run by the Yeovil and Sherborne District Group and they got chatting to the people running it. After my wife kept on at me, petrified, I made the move and attended a coffee social. The rest is history. I now have friends for life. 

The more I left my house again, the more confidence I had. After a few months of attending the socials run by the Yeovil and Sherborne Group, I was asked if I fancied taking on the role of Fundraising Volunteer to which I agreed. The volunteering bug had well and truly bit and I wanted to do more. So I also started volunteering at my local swimming pool and sat behind the desk for a couple of hours a week. 

Fast forward to 2019, our Group Coordinator, Sheila, decided it was time for her to step down. After some thought, I believed it was my time to step forward and take on the role. As a Group Coordinator, I lead our Coordinating Team. I also arrange monthly socials and team meetings. I do whatever it takes to raise awareness of MS and our group, so people know where to come to get support.

In addition to being Group Coordinator of our group, I’m also the Vice Chair and Treasurer for Yeovil Town FC Disabled Supporters Association (DSA). And last year, I was elected as a Town Councilor for Crewkerne! 

I’ve made friends for life

Taking that step and attending my first social with the Yeovil and Sherborne District Group has opened up so many opportunities. The thing I love most about volunteering is feeling like I’m giving something back and helping other people. To anyone thinking about volunteering, I say do it! You’ll make new friends for life and the satisfaction is contagious.

My advice to those with MS is to listen to your body and don't overdo things. Take all the help that is offered and with the right partner or carer, anything is possible!